10/06/2012

Are you faux real?

The title of today's blog entry is not only related to my double leather outfit (with both, faux and real elements), but also somehow quite adequate for a situation I'm seeing myself in at the time.
I'm not gonna explain in detail, but try to give you an impression of the questions currently being raised in my head (and heart). One of them is (surprisingly) the title of that blog entry, asking: Are you for real? (cheers to wordplays!) It's interesting that among millions of people on the planet, one or two particular persons can rule your mind - funnily, not even knowing that - and make you feel desperate and scared and make a whole lot of other negative emotions cross your thoughts. The ones closest to can cause the most damage.
When you feel so unimportant to somebody you really care for, pain starts to emerge in your chest. Sometimes, this seems just so major because you are making it that big. That's being thin-skinned and projecting your fear onto something not so dramatic, in fact. But sometimes you're right to be suspicious. Then, there's the third possibility of PMS.
In my very situation, I hope for answer a) or c) - but anyway, I've you've already been through a similar situation, being sensitive is quite a logical consequence, I guess. Once bitten, twice shy, right?


Love, Julie.

 
Vintage Men's Leather Vest, Second Hand Mango Bag, Faux Leather Skirt, Lace Shirt, Booties & Tights: H&M,
Bracelets: Forever21, H&M, I am


9 comments:

  1. i hate the power some people can hold of us. It is like they can switch your entire self-coscience and make you feel worthless in matter of seconds.

    Sometimes i think that not caring is the only option when it comes to today's generation.

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  2. mit meinen Eltern kann ich über sowas nicht reden,
    aber dazu gibt es Freunde (:
    Ich hoffe ja, das es nur eine kurze Phase von ihn ist, weil seine Freundin von ein paar Wochen Schluss gemacht hat. Nur die beiden haben sich gestern nochmal gestritten & ja.
    Ich versuch auf jeden Fall nochmal mit ihn zu reden/schreiben.
    Es wäre wirklich schade um ihn ): ♥

    & du hast richtig schöne Haare (: ♥
    Liebe Grüße (:
    http://causelifestartsnow-l.blogspot.de/

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  3. I find it's best not to give anyone any power of what you might think of yourself, it takes a lot of practice to do, but much more worth it in the end. We are who we are & we shouldn't stop or second guess ourselves because of someone else's thoughts. You look beautiful :) x

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  4. Thank you so much for your sweet comment on my blog! I love your blog too, you have great style!

    Do you want to follow each other to keep in touch?

    Alexis

    swaney e

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  5. Your Header is beautiful! L.O.V.E it :)
    http://schreibdeinmaerchen.blogspot.de/

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  6. Wow ,love the Colour of your Hair! Amazing Outfit ,you look fabulous!
    follow new ,mind follow back? :)

    kisses

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  7. schönes outfit, mag ich! :)

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  8. Das gefällt mir :)
    Vor allem süßer Lederrock!

    Liebe Grüße, Timna
    timnalovescouture.blogspot.com

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Thanks for sharing your much appreciated thoughts with me! xo J.